The Silent Ways He Says "I Love You"

I bribed my braver friends to break the male code of silence. If he does any of the following, he's pretty much saying, you know, that phrase and the hint of his mind to read 

You catch him staring at your eyes.
The eyes are more than just windows to a man's soul, they can also be a tattletale to what's welling in his heart. Men always ogle the objects they desire — it's the reason you're always busting us cleavage-peeping. So consider: With all that eye candy out there, if it's you he's staring at, his affection runs deep. There are two types of I-love-you looks. There's the secret stare (you'll have to catch him in the act). "Watching my girlfriend at a party allows me a private moment when I can pinch myself and wonder how I deserve this amazing person in my life — a perspective I can't get when she's right there in front of me," says Patrick, 30.

Then there's the steady gaze. Guys are guarded when it comes to showing emotion. If they lock eyes for a full-tilt, unabashed stare, they're lowering their shield to let you in. "I'd never hold that sort of eye contact with anyone else, but an intense gaze with my girlfriend reflects how comforted and captivated I am by her," says Chip, 29.

He stocks his kitchen with stuff you like.
Discovering that his kitchen is loaded with biscotti, lemon-lime seltzer, and other feminine edibles (that would only pass his lips at gunpoint) shows you're lingering on his mind in the most unexpected, unromantic places — like the produce aisle on a solo shopping trip. "One day I checked out my shopping cart and saw all the bags of baby carrots and bottles of diet soda meant for my girlfriend," says Patrick. "It struck me that it had become second nature for me to consider what would make her happy, and that's when I knew I was in love."

Furthermore, stocking up means he's gone public with your place in his pad. You see, men like to maintain at least the image of being detached for as long as possible. So leaving unmistakable evidence in our home that there's a woman present in our life is a bright red flag that you're The One.

He talks about where he wants to live in three years.
Telling you he plans to relocate out West one day may seem like a neon warning not to get any long-term ideas because your man's getting set to leave you in the dust. However, it might also be his wily way of letting you know that he wants you in his future. "Every time I tell my girlfriend where I see 'me' down the road, I'm really trying to gauge whether she sees herself there with me," says Jon, 26. So how do you know when a guy's just bragging about his grand game plan and when he's quietly declaring his love? It's all in the way he talks. If he tells you he wants to move to Tahiti, be a beach bum, and ogle the local girls, no dice. If he mentions that he sees himself eventually settling in San Francisco, then immediately asks if you could ever envision living there, he's emitting serious long-term relationship rays.
K.L

Choosing loneliness?

Do you ever wonder if you choose being lonely? cause when i think about it there are so many chances that i have missed out and people i have let down cause maybe i was depressed or i felt like i didn't belong with them or.. i know it probably sounds silly and it makes me sound very shallow but i often feel that having friends and a social life really is not worth if your friends are not like-minded people.. I rather spend my time alone doing something i enjoy then being with people just cause..

What i am trying to say is i understand that there are people out there who are genuinely lonely and it is not a choice and you have tried to make friends but have not been able to but then there is people like me. Who often rather stay in, read a book, watch a movie, listen to music, daydream.. i daydream so much that my standards is getting to high, it is awful and i wish it would go away.. Whenever i am around real people i get so disappointed and i just wanna go back to my head where everything and everybody is perfect. Or maybe my friends are out there somewhere? And sometimes i think maybe some are not meant to have friends.

ما هي أنواع العائلة؟

في العقود القليلة الماضية ، شهد العالم تغيرات كبيرة في مواجهة الأسرة. منذ عام 1975، تضاعف معدل الطلاق مما أدى إلى زيادة الأسر ذات العائل الواحد، تكرار الزواج والعائلات الموسعة. هذا هو مناقشة العديد من التعريفات "الأسرة" وكيف أنها تدل على التغيرات التي تحدث داخل الأسرة.
هناك أماكن كثيرة لجمع المعلومات عن الأسرة والأشكال المختلفة التي كان موجودا فيها مصدر واحد مثل هذا التعداد الكندية. بناء على معلومات من تعداد الكندية، حافظ الآباء واحدة 27.3 ٪ من الأسر التي لديها أطفال العائلة الخاصة دون سن 18 عاما. كان هناك 2100000 الد الطفل و 9.8 مليون عائلة الأم والطفل. في مجموعات عائلية الأم والطفل، كان 42.2 في المئة من الأمهات لم يكن متزوجا.

معظم الوقت عندما يكون الشخص يفكر في تعريف الأسرة ، وصورة الأم والأب والأطفال ما يأتي إلى الذهن. هذا هو في الواقع تعريف الأسرة النووية، وهي الآباء والأطفال واحدا أو أكثر. ومع ذلك ، هناك المزيد من التعاريف التي يمكن استخدامها لتعريف الأسرة مثل الأسرة ذات العائل الواحد الذي هو أحد الوالدين والطفل أو الأطفال. الأسرة الممتدة عندما أسرة نووية أو عائلة واحدة تعيش مع والد أي من أفراد الأسرة الممتدة.

وحدات عائلية تتخذ أشكالا مختلفة، وكلها تنطوي على الأفراد الذين يعيشون تحت سقف واحد. شكل العائلة أو هيكل لا يشير إلى مدى صحة الأسرة أو كيفية عملها. شكل الأسرة هو مجرد ماكياج المادية للأفراد الأسرة في العلاقة مع بعضها البعض دون احترام للأدوار والوظائف. مجموعة متنوعة من أشكال الأسرة قد يستغرق ويشمل

ዕላል ቀዳሞት

    ጽሑፍ ኣብ ዘይነበረሉ ዓንዲ-ማእከል ሓበሬታ እዩ ኔሩ። ታሪኽ የውርስ፣ ህሉው ኩነታት የረድእ፣ ክስተታት መጻኢ ይእንፍት። እቲ ምትሕልላፍ፣ ካብ ኣፍ ናብ ኣፍ፣ ካብ ዓቢ ናብ ንእሽቶ፣ ካብ ዝፈለጠ ናብ ዘይፈለጠ፣ ወዘተ… እዩ። ገሊኦም ሕገ- ልቦና ይብልዎ፣ ገሊኦም ድማ ኣፈ-ታሪኽ ይብልዎ። ልሳን ህዝብን ኣፈ-መንግስትን እውን እዩ።ጽሑፍ ምስ ተማህዘ’ውን ኣገዳስነቱ ኣይሃሰሰን። ኣብዚ ዘለናዮ ዘመነ ሓበሬታ ተባሂሉ ዝፍለጥ ዘመን’ውን መልክዑ ደኣ ቀዪሩ እምበር ክጠፍእ’ሲ ኣይከኣለን። ባህሊ ኣለዎ፣ ወግዒ ኣለዎ፣ ኣገባብ ከኣ ኣለዎ፣ ‘ዕላል ቀደም’ ፣ ‘ዕላል ሎሚ’ ኢልና እንተንፈላልዮ ምስ የማነ ባርያ ምቖዘምና፣ ‘’ ከም ሎሚ ከይኮነ ብማዕዶ ሰላምታ’’ ተኣኪብና ንምዕላል ዕድል ምስተሳእነ እዩ የማነ ባርያ ነዛ ደርፊ ሰሪሑዋ።ምዝራብ እምበር ምዕላል ቀሊል ከምዘይኮነ፣ ሓሲብናሉ ዶ ንፈልጥ? ኣብ መንጎ ምዝራብን ምዕላልን፣ ውሑድ ዝምድና እዩ ዘሎ። ከምቲ ኣብ መንጎ ምርኣይን ምስትብሃልን ዘሎ ፍልልይ ማለት’ዩ። ምዝራብ ምስማዕ እንተኾይኑ፣ ምዕላል ከኣ ምስትውዓል ይኸውን።‘’ኣዋህልል’’ ይብሉ ዓበይቲ፣ ‘ቅድሚ ምዝራብካ ስማዕ’ ማለቶም እዩ። ‘ህ’ በል ይብሉኻ፣ ዘረባኦም ንምጅማር ወይ ንምቕጻል። ከምዚ ናይ ሎሚ ግዜ ዘይበልካ እነኾንካ፣ ካብ ንምስማዕ ንምዝራብ ስለእትቕልጥፍ፣ኣይተቃልበሎምን። ሽዑ፣ ነቲ ታሪኽ ሒዞም ይቕበሩ። ክብርታት ባህሊ ምስኦም ይቕበር። ንስኻ ግን ሬሳ ጥራይ ዘፋነኻ እዩ ዝመስለካ።
   ‘ህ’ ምስተበሃልካ፣ ‘’ህ’’ንምባል እንተመሪጽካ ድን መሳኹቲ ኣእዛንካ ምስጢራት ንምቕባል ኣርሒኻ ኣለኻ ማለት’ዩ። ‘ሓደ እዋን፣ ሓደ ወረጃ ከምዝኸማኹም’ ኢሎም ይጅምሩልካ። ጽቡቕ ናይ ሰብ ክለዓል ከሎ፣ ብባህላዊ ኣዘራርባ ብናይ ሰማዒ እዩ ዝዝንቶ። ‘’ትሕሽዎ ደኣ!’’ ክትብል ኣለካ፣ ናእዳ ተቐቢልካ ምስቃጥ ግቡእ ስለዘይኮነ። እንካን -ሃባን ዝሕመረቱ ባህሊ ዕላል እዩ ዘለና።
ሕማቕ ናይ ሰብ ክለዓል ከሎ ድማ፣ ብባህላዊ ኣዘራርባ ብናይ ተዛራብ እዩ ዝዝንቶ። ‘እቲ ለባም ሰብኣይ፣ ከምዝኸማይ፣ ዘይስተውዕል ኣገልጋሊ ነበሮም’’ ይብሉኻ፣ ጭራኦም ነስ እናበሉ። ‘’ኣባይኩም፣ ኣባይኩም እባ ደኣ!’’ ክትብል ትጽቢት ይግበረልካ። ኣባይኩም ማለት፣ መጻርርትኹም፣ ጸላኢኹም ወዘተ ማለት እዩ። ‘ጸላኢኹም ይዓሹ እምበር፣ ንስኹምሲ ለባም ኢኹም’ ኢኻ ትብሎም ዘለኻ። ክብራን ተኸባቢራን። እዚ’ውን ባህሊ እዩ። ሓድሕድ ምክብባር ዝመሰረቱ፣ ባህሊ ዕላል። ሰማዒ ኩሉ ግዜ ኣብ ባህላዊ ዕላል ክቡር እዩ። ናቱ ጽልዋ እዩ ክሳብ ሎሚ ማዕከናት ዜናና፣ ‘ዝኸበርኩም ሰማዕትና’ ዝብላ። ዕድል እንተዝወሃበኩም ድማ -ዝኸበርኩም ኣዳለውቲ- ከም እትብሉ ብህላዊ ኣተሓሳስባና ንጹር ይገብሮ።
ብዛዕባ ስነ-ሰብ ዘጽንዑ ሊዋውንቲ ከምዝብሎ፣ ወድ ሰብ ናይ ምዝራብ ጥራይ ዘይኮነ፣ ናይ ምዕላል፣ ባህርያዊ ትዕድልቲ ስለዘለዎ እዩ ካብ ካልኦት እንስሳታት ዝፍለ። ምዕላል ክልተ መዳያዊ እዩ። ምስማዕን ምዝራብን። ምስማዕ፣ ንነገራት ክትርዳእ ምኽኣል ማለት ክኸውን እንከሎ፣ ምዝራብ ከኣ ንፍጻሜታት፣ ሓሳባት ወዘተ ከተዘንቱ ምኽኣል ማለት እዩ። ሰብ በዚ ባህርያዊ ትዕድልቱ ወትሩ ንዕላል እናናፈቐ እዩ ዝነብር። ‘ዕላልኪ ናፊቐዩ’ ድዩ ዝበለ ታረቀ ተስፋሂወት?!
ሰበይቲ፣ ናውቲ ቡን ቀራሪባ ንምእታ ሰብኣያ እተቋምተሉ፣ ኣብ መንገዲ ንዝረኸብካዮ ‘ሓደ-ሃደ’ ንበል እትብሎ፣ ምስ ኣፍቃሪትካ እትቋጸረሉ ምኽንያት፣ ወዘተ… ብቐንዱ ስለምንታይ እዩ ኢልና እተሓሲብና፣ ንእንታይነትን፣ ኣገዳስነት ላል’ዩ ኣጉሊሑ ዘርእየና። ኣብ ዕላል ኩሉ ክብርታት ሕብረተሰብ ተጠቕሊሉ ኣሎ። ሞራላዊ ወይ ስነ-ምግባራዊ ክብርታት፣ ዋና መተሓላለፊ መስመሩ፣ ዕላል እዩ። እቶም ብዙሕ ዘዕልሉ፣ ብዙሕ ይረዳድኡ፣ ብዙሕ ድማ ይፋቐሩ። ‘ሓባእ ቁሱሉ ሓባእ ፈውሱ’ ከምዝበሃል፣ ካብቲ ዘየዕልል፣ እቲ ዘዕልል እዩ ዝወሓደ ሽግር ዘለዎ። እታ ዘይተዕልል ስድራ፣ ንኽትበታተን ልዑል ተኽእሎ ኣለዋ፣ ድማ ይብሉ ናይ ስነ-ልቦና ኣማኸርቲ። ረብሓታት ዕላል ዘርዚርካ ዝውዳእ ኣይኮነን።
     ንዕላል ከም ኣርእስቲ ኣልዒልካ፣ ንኣቶ ፍረ-ሓንስ ከይጠቐስካ ምሕላፍ፣ ዝከኣል ኣይመስልንን። ሹመኛ ምስ ኮኑ፣ ሹም ፍረ-ሓንስ ስለዝተባህሉ፣ ዝያዳ በዚ ስም እዚ እዮም ዝፍለጡ። ብዙሕ አረካብ ዘረባ ስለዝነበሮም ከኣ ነዚ ዓውዲ እቲ ኣብ ዝምልከት ኣብ ብዙሕ ተጠቒሶም ንረኽቦም።
ሹም ፍረ-ሓንስ ብዕራይ ሒዞም እናገሹ፣ ምድሪ ስለዝመሰዮም፣ ኣብ ሓንቲ ዓዲ ኣላጊሶም ይበሃል፣ ምስ ዕራዮም ስለዝኾኑ ድማ መሕደሪ ምርካብ ቀሊል ኣይነበረን።
    ‘ህ’ ዶ ክንብል፣ ወይስ ግዜ የብልናን?! ብዝኾነ ቆልዓ እታ ዓዲ ምስ ቆልዓ ጎዶቦ እናተጻወቱ፣ ቆልዓ እቲ ጎዶቦ ስለዝሞተ፣ ዓዲ ብኸመይ ነቲ ደም ከምእተደቅሶ ተዋጢራ እያ ኔራ። ‘ደሓን ዶ ኣምሲኽን’ ኢሎመን፣ ነደ እቲ ቆልዓ። ሰን ብወደን ንሶም ብመሕደሪ ተዋጢሮም እዮም ኔሮም። ‘እዚ ብዕራይ ዒባ ይገድፍ፣ ኣነ ከኣ ዘረባ እገድፍ’’ ኣስዒቦም ሽምፍረ-ሓንስ፣ ዘረባኦም ተስፋ ስለዝሃበን ኣሕዲረናኦም።ክእለት ዘረባ፣ ኣብ ዕላል እዩ ዝጥረ። ናይ ምዕላልን ምዝራብን ክእለት ዘለዎ፣ ሞጊቱ ናይ ምርታዕ ልዑል ተኽኦ ከምዘለዎ፣ ዕለታዊ ተሞኩሮና ዝምስክሮ ሓቂ እዩ። ከምቲ ንኣገባብ ኣጸሓሕፋ ዝምልከት ዝወሃብ ትምህርቲ ናይ ዕላል ቤት ትምህርቲ እንተዝህሉ ኢልካ ምሕሳብ እንታይ መስለኩም? ምተመሃርና እሞ መዕለልና።
ዕላል እንታይ እዩ? ብኸመይ ትጅምሮ፣ ሕቡእ መልእኽቲ ዕላል ከ ብኸመይ ኢኻ ተለልዮ? ኣገዳስነት ምሳሌኣዊ ኣበሃህላ ኣብ ዕላል እንታይ እዩ? ወዘተ… እንተንመሃሮ፣ ኣብ ብልሒ ኣእምሮና ከምጽኦ ዝኽእል ለውጢ፣ ርኡይ ይመስለኒ፣ ንዕላል ብኩለንትናኡ ክትርድኦ ምኽኣል ማለት ንነገራት፣ ብደቂቕ ወይ ብረቂቕ ክትርዳእ ምኽኣል ማለት ስለዝኾነ፣ በዚ ናይዚ ዘመን ኣዘራርባ ንናይ ዲፕሎማሰኛታት ቋንቋ ዘርዚርካ ክትፈትሕ ምኽኣል ማለት እዩ። ረብሓ ዕላል ኣቃሊልካ ዝረአ ኣይኮነን።
    ሹም ፍረ-ሓንስ ነተን ሰበይቲ ጽን ኢሎም እዮም ሰሚዖመን። እቲ ሓደጋ ከጋጥም እንከሎ፣ ብዘይካ እቶም ክልተ ቆልዑ፣ ማንም ከምዝዘይነበረ፣ ንምቕታል ዝኸውን መበገሲ ድማ ዝኾነ ከምዝይነበረ ብዘረጋገጹ፣ ነተን ሰበይቲ ዘረባ ሓዲጎምለን።
‘ደያኑ ክልቲኡ ዓዲ ምስተኣከቡ፣ ከም ሃላፊ መንገዲ ተመሲለ ክመጽእ እየ፣ ሽዑ እዝጊ የርኢኹም፣ ብባይቶ ዓዲ እምሕጸነኩም፣ መፍትሒ ስኢንና እሞ ገለ ፍታሕ እንተሎኩም በላኒ እሞ፣ ነጻ ከምዝትወጻ ክጣበበልክን እየ’ ኢሎመን።
ኣብቲ መዓልቲ ቆጸራ፣ ሹም ፍረ ሓንስ፣ እሕሕ ኢሎም፣ ዘረባኦም ንምጅማር። ‘ኣማውታ እዚ ቆልዓ ንጹር ካብ ዘይኮነ፣ ታ ከሳሲት ዓዲ ክልተ ካብ ቆልዑታ ኣብታ ገረብ ኣደይባ፣ እቲ ጸወታን እቲ ኣማውታን ከመይ ከምዝነበረ ብግብሪ ተርኢ። ደያኑ ነዚ ምስ ተዓዘቡ ጥራይ እዮም ቅኑዕ ፍርዲ ክፈርዱ ዝኽእሉ፣’’ ምስ በሉ፣ ነቲ ተመኩሮ ምድጋም ማለት ካልእህይወት ምሕላፍ ማለት ስለዝነበረ እቲ ጉዳይ ብዕርቂ ከምዝዛዘም ኮይኑ ይበሃል።
   ዛንታ ናይቶም ዘየስተውዕል ኣገልጋሊ ዝነበሮም ወረጃ ሰብኣይ ረሲዕና ኣለና። በቕሎም እዩ፣ በቕልኻ ተወጢሕካ፣ ኣዲ ሰብ ረጊጽካ ኣይሕለፍን ነበረ። እቶም ዓዲ ግን ንቡር ኣቀባብላ ኣይገበሩሎምን። ሽዑ እቶም ሰብኣይ፣ ማዮም ሰትዮም፣ ‘ለባማትኩም ይብዝሑ፣ ማይኩም ብጽሩዩ ይንበር’’ ኢሎም ጉዕዞኦም ቀጸሉ። ኣገልጋሊ ምርቓ መሲልዎ ተገሪሙ።ኣብ ሓንቲ ካልእ ኣዲ ድማ በጺሖም። እዞም ዓዲ ግን ዘይከምታ ቀዳመይቲ፣ ብጽቡቕ እዮም ተቐቢሎሞም። ሽዑ እቶም ሰብኣይ፣ ኣዕሪፎም። ክብገሱ እንከለዉ ግን ‘ሩባኹም ይዘረግ’’ ለባማትኩም ድማ ይውሓዱ’’ ኢሎሞም። ኣገልጋሊ ተሓዋዊስዎ። ምዝራግ ሩባ፣ ዝናብ ይፍጠረልኩም ማለት ምዃኑ፣ ለባማትኩም ይውሓዱ ማለት ድማ፣ ለባማት ኢና በሃልቲ ዝበዝሕዎ ዓዲ፣ ኣብ ክርክር እምበር ኣብ ስምምዕ ንኽበጽሑ ኣሸጋሪ ስለዝኾነ፣ ስምምዕ ይፍጠረልኩም ማለት ምዃኑ ዝርዳእ ዓቕሚ ኣይነበሮን።
    እንታይ ይበሃል ከምዘሎ ንምፍላጥ፣ ኪንዮ ምስማዕ ጽን ምባል የድሊ። ባህልና ነዚ ዝሕግዝ ሃብታም ልምዲ ስለዝነበሮ ዘሐብን እዩ። ‘ነበረ-ያ ነበረ’ ይብለካ ኣዘታዊ፣ ‘መን ነበረ’ ወይ ‘ኣንታይ ነበረ’ ትብሎ፣ ንምስማዕ ተዳሊኻ ከምዘለኻ ንምርኣይ። ብድሕሪ’ዚ ምሳሌኣዊ ትረኻ ገይሩ፣ ዘስተንትን፣ ዝምህር፣ ዘጠንቅቕ፣ ዘዘናግዕ ወዘተ የዕለካ።እዚ ‘ነበረ-ያ ነበረ’ ዝብል ዛንታ፣ ኣብ ካልእ ከባቢታት ‘’ጽውጽዋይ’’ ብዝብል’ዩ ዝፍለጥ። ዝተነግረ ዕላል፣ ወይ ዝተዘርበ ዘረባ ማለት ድማ እዩ። ‘’ወደኮይ ጸሊማይ’’ ትብሎ ከተቐጽሎ እንተደለኻ። ጽውጽዋይ ኣብ ምልማድ ዕላልን ኣተዓልላኡን ዝለዓለ ተራ ዘበርክት ኣገባብ እዩ።'እንካ ኣዝግነኒ’ ‘ሕንቅልሕንቅሊተይ’ ዝበሃሉ’ውን ንብልሒ ኣእምሮ ዝፈታተኑ ብሕቶ ዝቐርቡ ኣለዉ። እዞም ሕቶታት፣ ንመዝገበ ቃላትካ ዘሀብትሙን ንብልሒ ምስትውዓልካ ዝድርኹን እዮም። ቀሊል ክነሱ ብዝተጠውየ ወይ ብዝተሰወረ ኣገባብ ንዝቐረበ ኣበሃህላ፣ ንኽትፈትሕ ድማ ይሕግዙ።
    ናይ ስነ-ልቦና ክኢላታት ከምዝብልዎ፣ ደዊ ሰብ ብትሕዝቶ ዓይነት ዕላልና፣ ብልሒ ኣእምሮና ይምዘን እዩ። እቲ በሊሕ ሰብ ብዛዕባ ሓሳብ፣ እቲ ማእከላይ ብዛዕባ ፍጻሜ፣ እቲ ድኹም ግን ብዛዕባ ሰባት’ዩ ዘዕልል።
ምስቶም ብዛዕባ ሓሳብ ዘዕልሉ ክትሓብሩ፣ ዕላልኩም’ውን ብዛዕባ ሓሳብት ክኸውን እናዘካከርኩ እየ ክፍለየኩም፣ ጥዑም ዕላል!

Ethiopia Threatens to Oust Eritrea Govt

Officials Say Ethiopia Abandons 'Defensive' Policy

Officials with the Ethiopian government have announced over the past several days that they have changed their policy toward Eritrea and are now preparing to oust the government in the neighboring country through “dipomatic and military” means.

Prime Minister Meles Zenawi said that the Ethiopian government plans to use “all possible means” to destroy the Eritrean government. The announcement came in an interview with an Ethiopia-based radio station run on behalf of the Eritrean opposition if they are real.

The officials say Ethiopia has officially abandoned its “defensive” policy and now intends to be “proactive” about toppling Eritrea.

Eritrea was only able to secure its independence in 1993 after decades of bloody clashes with Ethiopia Dergi. The Ethiopian government invaded again in 1998 like their ancesters  and continues to occupy considerable disputed territory.

Since the loss of Eritrea, Ethiopia has become a landlocked nation, and the reconquest of the territory, whether through a puppet regime of America or outright annexation, is likely a high priority. Ethiopia has pressed for broad international sanctions against Eritrea, nominally for “meddling” in Somalia. Eritrea has denied this accusation but had ties with the now defunct Islamic Courts Union (ICU) in Somalia, which opposed the 2006 Ethiopian invasion of Somalia like they invaded eritrea

Things Girls Hate About Guys

 Well, if all the guys are reading this in an attempt to find out what girls want, then I must warn you that not all of the things mentioned here will hold true for your girl. Like I say every time, each and every girl is special and unique and hence has different tastes and thinking patterns generalized collection of things girls hate about guys. 

    The first and most important thing to keep in mind is that no girl likes to be ignored. If you are planning to live your entire life with a girl, you better master the art of making her feel special and important. Girls hate it when guys ignore them. It’s not like they want you to leave your work and run behind them, but even if you do have an important meeting, a girl likes it if you tell her politely that you have to rush at the moment but will take her out for a date the moment your work is done. However this does not in any way justify the time you ignore your girl to enjoy sports with your buddies.
    Which brings us to another important point about the things girls hate about guys – their friends! The reason why most of the girls have an issue with their boyfriend’s buddies is the fact that some guys tend to act like complete idiots when they are with their guy-friends. Endless hours of smoking, drinking and hooting while watching sports on television or indulging in a game of poker, leaves no room for the girl. Girls don’t mind guys spending time with their friends as long as the friends don’t start hogging all the time and attention.
      Girls hate a spineless guy – guys need to take the lead and have control over their lives. Girls don’t hate jobless guys; they hate guys who don’t have the will to work. In case you are hunting for a job and struggling to make your mark in the concerned profession, your girl will stand by you, but if you are going to wallow in self-pity and make absolutely no efforts to pull up your socks and make a living, then you can stop dreaming of having a girlfriend!
     Equally important thing besides respecting themselves is that the guys need to respect the girls as well. Girls hate it when guys lack respect for them – be it their family, their job, their hobby or their fashion sense. No girl likes to be ridiculed about her work, career, fashion sense or even her make-up skills. Girls like guys who know how to respect them, because of the simple principle "If he can’t respect me, he can’t love me".
    Family bashing is never tolerated. No girl likes a man who disrespects her family and parents. Things like under-estimating a girl’s career options or putting her down will also put you permanently on her black list. Girls hate it when they are taken for granted. Next time you make a plan for the weekend getaway, don’t tell her what to do, ask her instead. Girls like guys who consider and respect their opinions in decision-making.
     Deceit is another issue that girls hate. Girls hate it when guys lie to them and let me warn you guys that it really doesn’t matter when you come up with excuses like "I lied because I didn’t want to lose you" or "I lied because I didn’t want to hurt you". In case you lie, you are surely in for some big trouble. Life is not a romantic chick-flick, where no matter what you do, the girl will run back to you at the end. Get real and be honest to your girl.
     Girls absolutely cannot stand their man ogling at other girls and yes… it really doesn’t make the ogling any less annoying if it was done without their knowledge, behind their back. Sooner or later, she will find out! Girls hate it when guys try and justify things with lame reasons like " I was just looking","We were only talking", a girl will know when you are talking to another girl with ulterior motives.
     Generally, no girl likes an ill-mannered, uncouth guy. Girls hate it when guys utter profanities. Also hygiene is an issue that most girls are very sensitive about. Girls hate guys who dig their noses or fart, burp and belch. A man without basic sense of hygiene and etiquette is an absolute no-no. As far as fashion is concerned, not every girl is looking for a fashionable model, but a guy with a basic decent dressing sense. As for guys who have complete disregard for the clothes they wear, there are plenty of girls out there who are waiting to give them a makeover and groom them.
    One of the most important things that girls hate is comparison with other girls. Girls hate being compared to other girls, especially if you are hooting for the other girl. So the next time you try and do that, be prepared for a wrath-attack or the ultimate silent treatment. And in case it’s your ex-girlfriend that you are comparing her to – then you are dead. A girl has every right to hate her boyfriend’s ex-girlfriends.
    So, there you go. You have a list of things that girls hate about guys. Always love your girl instead of judging her. Pamper her but don’t smother her, respect her but don’t be her pet, give her enough time end space and you will get yours, treat her right and she will be yours forever